"Faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ." Romans 10:17.
Christianity is typically known for what it is "against," not what it is "for." We need to change that perception. You don't lead someone to Jesus Christ by being angry at them; you lead someone by inspiring them. So instead of telling them about what we're against, we need to be focusing on what we're for.
People change because they are inspired to change, not just because they are told to do so.
Unfortunately, Christians can be so focused on changing people's behavior that they miss the heart. In fact, no one changes their behavior unless their heart is changed first.
You don't convince your kids to stop doing something inappropriate by simply telling them that it is wrong. Instead, you give them reasons why the behavior is unacceptable and harmful.
So, as followers of Christ, we have to speak about what we are "for" more than what we're "against."
Here's how you can do that:
1. Change Your Narrative
Share what you are "for" by capitalizing on the positive reasons something is essential.
Your narrative needs to be one of purpose and hope.
God's way of life for us is not about following blind rules; they are about us becoming our best self through His guidance and the power of his Spirit living inside of us.
He is not restricting us out of dictatorship authority for no reason. He is protecting us from hurting our potential and, more importantly, our eternal salvation.
2. Change Your Tone
Don't get angry with people over their behavior; point them to a greater possibility instead.
It is God's kindness that leads us to repentance.
We are called to emulate that same kindness and grace towards others by leading them. Look at what Paul said,
"Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?" Romans 2:4.
We need to have true grace with people as we "love" them to the cross rather than trying to "force" them to the cross.
Let your tone be one of hope and purpose, not anger and frustration.
3. Change Your Time-Frame
We have to be patient with people. You can't expect them to change overnight.
You have to keep planting seeds, watering those seeds, and allow God to sprout the fruit.
People are worth our patience. I have found there is no such thing as a hopeless situation…just hopeless people.
There is always a way to bring hope back to people; they just need someone to help them find it again.
People need time to develop. So even with expectations and accountability, you need to be patient with people.
Focus on what you're "for," not just on what you're "against."
Have a blessed week,
Pastor (Rev. Elias Limones)
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